Taking children to festivals can be a hard decision. My wife and I love festivals,
it's a great way to let your hair down, get away from it all and forget about
the outside world for a day or a weekend. We met at Glastonbury, we love
our music and we love camping, it's essentially in our blood. So when it came
to when we should introduce India to festivals, it was a little tough to decide
how. Initially I thought that we should just take her in a baby-backpack
and lug her around all weekend, and then it dawned on me... I'd also need to
lug her changing bag, favourite toy, spare dummy, blanket, coat and whatever
else Mum decided she needed at the last minute - Going to a weekend long
festival with a 6 month old was not an option, so we thought we'd do it
gradually.
We started with a day festival
in Hyde Park. I'm not sure about you (people that live outside the big
smoke), but there's something off-putting about trying to lug something the
size of a mini through the London Underground. Navigating it on your own
steam is bearable, but when you've got half your hallway attached to a pram and
you're trying to get down an escalator it's a completely different, sweaty
experience. We had bought a pair of baby ear
defenders which we discovered were perfect for keeping the hustle, bustle and bass out of her tiny ears, and helped her to sleep during the afternoon. To be honest, it was a
breeze in the proverbial park, the pre-event stress was soon eradicated by the perfect day, and India just thought she was having some quiet play time!
On our next instalment we were slightly braver. We managed to get hold of
some tickets for Secret Garden Party which is, shall we say, slightly less
child friendly than a London royal park, but nevertheless we gave it a go for a
day. This time, the kit had doubled. We needed warmer clothes for
the evening (for all of us) and enough food and nappies to last, on the slight
off chance there was an apocalypse and we couldn't get home till the
following Wednesday. The bottom of our pram looked like we'd been
shoplifting at a jumble sale. This festival went down a treat, India was
still dancing in her pram with her ear defenders on long after we'd slurped a
couple of coffees to enable us to tackle the long journey home.
Last weekend we went the whole hog.
Two nights, three days and stinking hot weather at the Big
Feastival. Thinking back to my twenties when I used to
chuck a tent, a small bag and a case of cider in the boot of the car and shoot
off down to Devon, this in comparison, was like preparing to move house.
I don't think I've ever managed to squeeze as much into my car as I did
on Friday lunchtime - from formula to flip flops and travel cot to tent, it was
all in there, I actually thought the wife was planning not to return home at
one point. Entertaining a little one (or two for that matter, with the
addition of our friend's 3 year old) for the duration of the weekend was
actually easier than we had anticipated. It turned out that the biggest
challenge of the weekend was the sober attempt to cocoon our darling daughter
in her sling on the Saturday afternoon, only to stare at each other with a mix
of confusion and bemusement whilst recalling the much easier attempt the
previous evening, when we'd managed it in 20 seconds flat after a fair few
ciders. As a result I was left carrying her on one arm for the remainder of the
day and returned my back to it's crooked shape for the fifteenth time this year.
I must
say, if you're passionate about music, being outdoors and introducing the
little people to a whole new world of experiences then I would highly recommend
taking them to a festival, there are loads of family friendly ones out there,
from Camp Bestival to Lollibop. They will probably cost you a months
mortgage, and then some, but the smile you get on their face when you're
dancing and singing out of key to Mr Tumble's version of the hokey-cokey is well
and truly worth every penny. Trying to change a nappy on the side of a
barrel, or feeding lunch whilst angrily fighting off dozy wasps can have it's
challenges, but life is never simple - so you just tend to suck it up.
A word
to the hedonistic wise; if you want to have a carefree and nappy free weekend
away without feeling like you've been used as a buckaroo for the entire
duration, then
drop the kids off at the grandparents and head off into the Friday evening
sunset on your own!
Yeah, I would really love to go to a festival just the two of us - never appreciated it enough first time round. But then again, discovering it through the children's eyes is just prolonging the pleasure :)
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely! We've seen a whole new sides of a festival this year with the little one, which has been fantastic. We still want to keep just the one a year as our special weekend!
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